Part of being an adult is having the ability to know when not to say what’s on your mind, a skill lost on most children, whose nature lends itself to an almost brutal honesty. For instance, if you’re feeling vulnerable, don’t ask a child a question with an expectation that the answer will somehow buttress a sagging self-image, because very young people don’t always understand how words can hurt.
Now if an adult were to act in the same fashion–with any sort of frequency–then there’s a problem.
The point that I am meandering towards is that words aren’t free, and that there’s a cost to be paid for uttering the wrong ones.
And it doesn’t have to have to be “Fire” in a crowded theater to cause damage.
When I was growing up, the phrase “Sticks and stones may break you bones, but words may never hurt you,” was a popular aphorism, but as I got older I also came to realize that physical wounds healed eventually, while words could leave scars that follow one their entire lives.
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Spider-Man Irritates Conservatives
Here’s a link to an interesting story on Mediate about Spider-Man, who he is, who he isn’t and what the some in the Conservative media have to say about it.
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